Could You Handle Your Partner Sleeping With Someone Else? Take the Quiz

September 15, 2026
2 min. read
Kimberly Anne | themodernsexologist

Somatic relationship coach Kimberly Anne, provides the top 5 questions you should ask yourself before opening up your relationship.

Are You and Your Partner Ready to Sleep With Someone Else?

Cheating or not cheating? If you’re in a situation where you’re asking yourself this question, then you’ve come to the right place. Whether your partner has mentioned sleeping with other people, or it’s a fantasy that’s crossed your mind, the reality of what that means might be settling in. Will you or they cross a line that feels like microcheating or even full blown cheating? Will it turn you on? Or will sexual jealousy come up? Having sex with people outside your relationship can be a big thing, and it’s great that you and your partner are thinking about it rather than just jumping straight in. 

To protect your relationship, it’s important to go into things with clear communication, boundaries, and mutual understanding of where your relationship is at and what you and your partner’s intentions are for having sex outside of your relationship. If that seems like a lot, that’s because it is. The most successful open relationship dynamics are not based on a one-time conversation and a reliance on seeing where the wind takes them, they’re built on honesty and continuous check-ins. While this quiz isn’t meant to be a full-blown assessment on the strengths and weaknesses of your relationship, it can be used as a helpful tool to aid you in understanding where you and your partner could improve lines of communication before opening up your relationship.

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