How to Squirt with Real-Life Couple Boris & Nicole
Curious about how to squirt and what squirting really is? Real-life lovers Boris & Nicole are giving their drip-by-drip breakdown.
Mega-hot couple Boris and Nicole’s Lustery Vlog has caused something of a splash over here…literally! This time, they’re going beyond the typical squirting video and throwing some sex education in with their eroticism as they explain what is squirting and how they do it.
What Is Squirting? Understanding the Basics
Squirting is the act of expelling fluid from the urethra, sometimes with force, and other times very subtly, usually as a result of stimulation of the G-spot (also called the female prostate), and sometimes support from other erogenous zones, as will be explained later.
Squirting is different from an orgasm, though. An orgasm is the point of climax during sexual arousal. The most common physical pleasure points that indicate this are in the genitals. And, for some people, climax can come through other bodily erogenous zones. Squirting often happens during orgasm, but not always.
What Is Squirting Made Of?
In the book The G-Spot: And Other Discoveries about Human Sexuality, the authors set out to investigate what the liquid released during squirting actually is. A summary of their conclusions:
“This study presents evidence that squirting in women is chemically similar to urine, and also contains small amounts of PSA (prostate specific antigen), which is present in the ejaculate of both men and women.”
We also know that there is a difference in terms of color, odor, chemical components, and volume. So, in short, squirt may contain pee, but it isn’t completely pee as it is differentiated by the presence of PSA.
Squirting v. Female Ejaculation
While “squirting” and “female ejaculation” are often used interchangeably, they’re not quite the same thing—and yes, both can happen during the same session. As mentioned before, squirting usually refers to the release of a clear, often odorless fluid from the urethra during intense arousal or stimulation, typically of the G-spot, but can also come from clitoral or a fun combo of the two. It tends to be more watery and can happen in a gush or trickle (or, for some, a full-on splash zone situation).
Female ejaculation, on the other hand, is a thicker, milky-white fluid that comes from the Skene’s glands, also released through the urethra, and is more similar to semen in texture due to the larger presence of PSA.
Basically, squirting is like a sexy fountain, while female ejaculation is more like a creamy drip—both delicious in their own right. It's possible to experience squirting and female ejaculation at the same time, but many people will experience one and not the other.
What Is the G-Spot and Where Can I Find It?
Today, the G-spot is considered to be more of a ‘zone’ (rather than a pinpointed spot). And we now know that the clit is actually like an iceberg: the hood and head that can be seen on the outside of the body are simply the tip of a much larger organ that extends downward around the vaginal passage.
How to Locate the G-Spot
- The G-spot is generally located between three to eight centimeters inside the inner wall of the vagina, towards the navel.
- To find the G-spot, you can slide two (or one) fingers inside with your palm facing upwards.
- Use a “come hither” motion with firm pressure.
- Don’t feel discouraged if you struggle to reach it alone–the angle can be tricky, so ask a partner to lend a hand.
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How to Squirt: Tips and Techniques to Help You Get There
It can be hard to reach your G-spot area alone, but it’s not impossible! Both alone or with a partner, you want to be relaxed, in a comfortable place, and with time to be curious and explore.
Solo Techniques to Squirt
Some people prefer to explore their bodies autonomously first because they feel less pressured. It can also make it easier to focus exclusively on what you are feeling. Some specific positions might help to stimulate your G-spot on your own.
Helpful Positions for G-Spot Stimulation:
- Lying on your back with a pillow under your butt for leverage
- On your knees, leaning forward
- Squatting
Finger Technique:
- Apply firm pressure, but not excessive
- Use a “come hither” motion
- Maintain a steady rhythm
- Consider using a curved or S-shaped toy if fingers aren’t doing the trick
Partner Techniques for G-Spot and Squirting Play
For others (just ask Boris and Nicole), it’s easier when someone else is doing the touching.
- Share what you’ve learned about where to stimulate
- Penises and dildos may not naturally make the “come here” motion, so: Try shallower penetration;
- Experiment with doggy style (receiver on their belly with butt up); Explore spooning
This can be a tricky way to try to learn how to squirt, so I encourage self-exploration first. Hand play and flexible toys often work better than penetrative sex when you’re still learning how to squirt, so don’t skip the hand stuff!
Still Not Squirting? Here’s Why That’s Totally Okay
Give yourself time. Not every moment is a squirting moment. This doesn’t mean you will never be able to squirt–maybe there is something in the formula that’s not working (time, body condition, pressure, angle, etc.). Think about it as learning any new skill. What do you need to make that skill stick? Practice, patience, and persistence.
As I mentioned before, being comfortable is key. Try masturbating and having an orgasm before. Even if you don’t have an orgasm, just touching yourself and turning yourself on… Your body has to be turned on to squirt. Not just physically, but mentally.
Peeing beforehand is also a good idea, especially because when you feel aroused enough, with the right amount of pressure, you might feel the need to squirt, similar to an urge to pee. With time, you can come to perceive the difference between these two feelings, but at the beginning, you can rely on your bladder being empty already and just relax and enjoy when the squirt comes. Getting more comfortable with the different ways it feels to cum for your own body will help you gain confidence in the various sensations.
Letting go, opening up, and releasing yourself is important to allow squirting to happen. It’s very hard to do so when you feel pressured, unsure, or have big expectations! So, make sure to enjoy the ride, no matter where it takes you.
